Advance Belonging – We request that, as you have decided to come to a Circle, you step into the idea that you belong and that the others attending belong. If you feel you will have difficulty doing this, or difficulty accepting belonging of certain participants, we ask you bring this to the attention of a member of our team discreetly, ideally before the event begins. Inclusive practice does not mean excluding a majority, although we do try to support everyone who wishes to attend our events as best we can.
Bring Compassion – We invite you to approach Circling activity as compassionately as you can. Sometimes you may be required to withhold your thoughts and feelings in order to do this and we invite you to notice how this is experienced and, if it feels right in the moment, share that you are withholding things but not necessarily what is being withheld.
Connect Deliberately – Much is said around the idea of ‘Connection’ in Circling, both in the moment and when undertaking Circling activity. Circling Cornwall believe that the most important connection is with the self and that we can’t connect effectively with others, unless we are connected with our own emotional and embodied experience. We invite you to connect with yourself first and then extend and include your experience to others.
We are proud that this principle is now being widely adopted by other Circling groups internationally, following our lead.
Develop Empathy – A central part of Circling practice is being with others. We invite you to foster curiosity around those you meet within a circle and imagine what it might be like to be them. This is especially encouraged when using structures that focus primarily on empathy with others: Birthday Circles and Witnessing Circles. Only on progression to Anchoring Circles do we encourage verbal participant interventions or Trauma Informed somatic support as directed by the facilitator.
In simple terms, we invite you to expand what is in your sphere of awareness using Circling practice. You may wish to research the transpersonal psychological work of Wilber
especially pre-trans fallacy.
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